Reconciliation: Being Selfless

I have a couple of beliefs about dating that I think are really important. (1) I believe that God really cares about the way we date and (2) I believe that God can use dating relationships for our benefit even if they don’t end in marriage. That second one is probably the most controversial. But if both of these are true (and I’m convinced they are) and if God’s in the business of reconciling the world, mending it and putting it back together, then it’s important that we join in with what he’s doing. And it’s equally important thatRead more

Reconciliation: At the Centre Heart of Scripture

Romantic relationship aren’t easy to get right, and even if we do manage to navigate the minefield of Christian dating then we’re not even guaranteed to reach the safe-haven of a “happy-ever-after” story. However, what we can do is learn how to navigate the tricky terrain of dating relationships which will at least minimize the damage from messy break-ups, if and when they happen. We can also be safe in the knowledge that Read more

Bringing Discipleship Into Dating

As the founder and director of a U.K. charity called Relationship Dilemma, one question I get asked a lot is: “Does God even care about how we date?” I think this question is vital.

In my experience, most Christians have two typical approaches to dating…

Read the full blog here on the Boundless website.

How Can I Help Dating Couples In My Church?


Whenever I deliver talks on dating and relationships, I always leave time for Q&A. Usually, there is one question in particular which stands out, and at a recent event this question came from a young man who asked:

‘As a single person, how can I help dating couples in my church?’

I think this question is great because…

Read the full blog here on the Fusion website.